Love is a complex emotion on its own and figuring it out is hard enough for most people. When love can weather any eventuality and situation, while remaining constant and unchanged, it expands into unconditional love. Simply put, it means to love someone without expectations, limits or reason.
Unconditional love is the purest and highest form of love. Most of you crave for it in your lives, but few are fortunate enough to experience it to the desired levels. Today, most of your relationships are based on attachments with a motive of survival, support and self- preservation.
Let me ask you some questions. How many of you will love your spouses if they refused to care for you or provide you financial stability? Who will continue to love their friend, if they knew that the friend will soon find another special friend and move away? This is what makes this love so difficult to achieve. Unconditional love means you will love a person for who they are, regardless of their conduct or circumstance. There are no expectations and therefore no bitterness or blame.
When you impose conditions on love, it remains narrow and selfish. Since your self-interest runs deep, you develop fears that morph into forces such as anger, jealousy, greed and selfishness. True love, on the other hand, ranks far above attachment. Real love is freedom and compassion. What you commonly experience are attachments that are mostly illusionary and lead you into the trap of expectations and dependency, which finally ends in suffering.
Unconditional love is simply ‘All That Is’. There are no boundaries, no limitations and no fears. Unconditional love is above every fear, because Love and Fear cannot coexist in the same space at the same time. If you can cultivate it, unconditional love will be the solution to all your problems. Love your enemy, love your illness, love everything that happens to you and you will experience true expansion in life. This is because unconditional love is the ultimate goal of human existence; it is the solution, the resolution to everything.
In the state of unconditional love, you realise that you have yourself become love; you are in a state of being your Higher Self. Ultimately, you must learn to create and embrace this feeling in order to exude the Divine Light. Unconditional love is when you consciously choose Love, no matter what happens around you. It can be a life changing emotion, so expand your heart and learn to love without any strings, boundaries and attachments.